Question Posted Saturday December 19 2009, 9:57 pm
me: 17f
him: 16m
so, ive been with my boyfriend for almost 7 months. and all we have done is make out, he feels me up.. and thats it. like nothing sexual. but today, i went over his house and we were making out.. first, it was just me like on his lap, then somehow he ended up laying down and i was straddling him. [he had jeans on, i had jeans on] and we kept making out. then he was like, here, lay down. [we were on a couch] and i was like.. uhm, where. and he was like, ontop of me haha. so im like laying ontop of him and we're still making out.. and then like idk, hes feeling me up all over. and i kissed his neck and i think he kinda like, shuttered. then after a little we kinda just stopped, and like we sit apart.. and i see that he has like a wet sopt on his jeans.. and i didnt say anything.. and hes like goin to the bathroooom.. blah blah. and we didnt talk about it afterwards.
uhm.
what happened hahhaaa. did he like.. ejaculate just from making out with me and feeling me up? and could i be pregnant. because i think i might die if i could be. like FROM MAKING OUT. aaah. and did i handle this the right way? and how did he get THAT turned on.. haha.. uhm. help?
amazingness answered Tuesday December 22 2009, 9:57 am: Well first things first. You cannot get pregnant from just making out, you have to have a sexual relationship to be pregnant. Maybe you two want to begin sex but still don't feel 100% ready. Even 99% probably isn't enough. And only he knows for sure about the whole wet jeans situation. GOOD LUCK!!! [ amazingness's advice column | Ask amazingness A Question ]
As long as your pants were on your fine. He's definitely a virgin, and very attracted to you. He's embarrassed for sure. Just never bring it up.. Ever to him. You just got him really worked up, after he does a little more sexually it won't happen again.
x0for3v3rfr33x0 answered Sunday December 20 2009, 5:55 pm: Sounds like he did ejaculate. Because his sperm did not come in direct contact with your vagina, you have no worries of being pregnant. If you guys weren't wearing clothes at the time, however, than you would have a problem. I don't think you should have reacted so silently. He probably feels embarrassed or ashamed...He is really attracted to you and you should let him know that you appreciate that! So i would definitely bring this up and let him know that. I'm sure he is worrying about what happened. [ x0for3v3rfr33x0's advice column | Ask x0for3v3rfr33x0 A Question ]
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