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Please help!! :( before its too late
What do i do?? I'm confused.
Question Posted Monday December 14 2009, 11:26 am
So I have this friend, who told me her crush. and she obviously told me her crush because she trusted me. well, one day, i accidentally slipped her secret. this guy asked me who my friend's crush was. and i told him. i did it for a lollipop. i was really hungry. I know this was really stupid of me. but i had to tell him.
My friend got to know that i told that guy about her crush...then my friend got really mad at me. she ignored me for about one month!! :(
i told her i was really sorry, i wont do it again.
today, we were playing truth or dare. and she had to tell us her mini crush. she didnt tell us because she didn't trust people..which was me! :(
i went to the bathroom, cried.
i was stupid to make that mistake. i got punished (being ignored for a month) but at least i learned, to keep her secrets!
today, she told people her crush except for me.
when she saw me crying, she's like "I think i better tell her who my crush is"
she wrote it on a piece of paper. and showed it to me. i didn't look. i told her i dont want to know.
I kinda know that she likes my crush!! :'( what do i do??? shes getting close to my crush!
and now, my friend and i are mad at each other..
well...its mainly because im ignoring her.
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Grow up.
Seriously.
This is what happened:
You screwed up.
She was mad at you.
You apologized.
She forgave you.
That part of it is over.
The fact you think she likes the same person you like is a totally seperate problem, and it's not even really a problem.
The guy you both like is free to choose who he wants to spend time with. If he wants to get closer to her, that isn't her fault! Sure, you might feel hurt, but you can't blame her for it. She can't control who she likes, and neither can he.
If you like him, make that known and tell him you want to hang out with him. That's the only thing for you to do about it.
That, and forgive your friend for something she can't help and that isn't her fault. Respecting and trusting someone means repsecting and trusting them even when what they want is at odds with what you want.
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So, grow up. Stop ignoring her. She's tried to be nice and show you that she wants to be friends and trust you agian, and threw it back in her face! She gave you a chance by letting you in on a secret and you were rude to her. A good place to start fixing this would be to stop ignoring her and maybe even apologizing for not apperciating her attempt to include you agian.
Sitting around and being miserable and rude isn't going to make her magically not have a crush on this guy, but it will destroy your friendship.
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