Its been 15 weeks since I came to this college, and I still don't have any real friends. Yes I talk to people every now and then but I still feel really alone. I have left my dorm room door open most of the time and not a single person has ever walked up and started talking to me. I have joined clubs but they are not really active and everyone seems to scatter when the meetings end. It's now the end of the semester but I am hoping that next semester brings a new start and I want some advice on what I can do to meet people
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? MsB answered Tuesday December 15 2009, 4:25 am: My best friend is in the same situation. It's terrific that you joined clubs, and leave your door open to newcomers, and the fact that your so optimistic about next semester is awesome. Definitely continue the things your doing. A few girls on my floor had a baking party [if your a guy you could invite some boys over for a football game], this will give you the opportunity to go to other peoples rooms and invite them to your room. Good Luck.
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sunshine1232 answered Monday December 14 2009, 8:04 pm: Be confident believe in yourself confidence is key
just be yourself if you get nervous take a few deep breaths and calm yourself down everyone gets nervous sometimes it's normal but you can't let your nerves get the best of you if other people aren't willing to start the conversation then you be the first one too and see where it goes think positive thinking negative will make the situation
worst and you'll end up feeling worst as well :) [ sunshine1232's advice column | Ask sunshine1232 A Question ]
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