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This guy confuses me. . .
15/f
Okay, so I've known this guy, Matt, since I was in the 6th grade--I'm in the 10th grade now. We've never really spoken to each other until this year, but I used to like him in Jr. High. This year it seems like we are becoming really good friends--which is a good thing. At first I thought he was starting to like me, but now I'm just confused. Whenever it's just me and him and our two other friends, he's all flirty and touchy feely with me. But when we're at school it's like I'm not even alive (the only place he'll kinda sorta talk to me at school is in study hall). All ast night he was finding someway to make contact with me, sit by me and we held hands (not for very long) and I thought it ment something. It did mean something for me, but I'm not sure what it meant for him. Later I had a dream about him and I and I really liked it. Now, I think I'm regaining those feelings for him again. I find myself thinking "If Matt were here, I bet he'd say this. . ." or "I wonder what Matt is doing. . ." or anything to do with him. My question is, why is he acting all flirty when it's just us and than like I'm not even alive when all of those pretty blonde girls (one used to be one of my best friends but turned into a jerk). Should I let myself start liking him again or should I just get over it? The more and more I think about him, the more I wish he were with me. Please help!!
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I don't mean to bring down the second advice giver, no more than the second advice giver means to put down the first advice giver...however a sophomore can very much so be a player. Trust me! I am 18 now, but definitely remember what it was like when I was your age. My boyfriend was a big player. (and by the way, you don't have to have sex to be a player) Toying with different girls feelings is being a player. Point blank.
We cannot tell you whether or not he likes you or not. All we can do is tell you to ask him yourself. You need to know, because if he does like you then perhaps something could form from this. If he doesn't, it's better to know now instead of waiting until your feelings get stronger.
Good luck.
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Sorry for bringing down the other person who gave their advice on this question, but a player at 15 years old. Are you kidding me!!! he hasn't even gone past second base yet. haha. I think you are giving this guy to much credit. When I guy does this, it means that he likes you, but is embarrased to show it to other people. He will do it in front of the other friends, because they probably know the situation. But the other girls probably don't. Remember, in high school, your image is everything. Once a rumor is started about you, it could ruin the rest of your years in high school. He is afraid that the others will tease him, especially the one that used to be your friend. I am sure you are just as pretty as the other girls, he is just a chicken. Ask yourself, when you guys are all touchy with each other, is other people around or just a few people and you too. If its just when its you too then he may have trouble with PDA (public display of affection). Don't let this hurt your chances, just be patient and don't give up. Let him know you are there and interested and in time he will come around. Just don't expect him to show it in front of the other girls or friends
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Why must boys be so confusing?
At times its hard to tell whether or not a guy likes you because sometimes he maybe friendly with you and sometimes not so much. Well truthfully if you want an honest answer I would suggest confronting Matt or maybe ask him to hang out sometime with just the two of you. The only way you'll know for sure is if you ask him...he sounds like a player so I would be careful he may just flirt with you just because he's like that. Be cautious but sit him down and just ask him. If you feel though that its too hard then he's not worth it he sounds kind of a bit sketchy. When you think of it if a guy liked you wouldn't he just either tell you or ask to hang out with you? In the end it's your decision. Good luck! Happy Holidays!
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