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young and worried
I am a 14 year old mother.
Please do not judge me, i am judged enough.
I am still in school and planning on finnishing.
My story is, my friends father raped me, obviously he did not know what the word protection ment, and knocked me up. He is in prison, my parents grief every day, and people stare like they think they are God and its judgment day. It is very hard, i couldnt give the baby up, i just didnt have it in me. I am 7months and huge. I am scared, i have watched tons of videos on wat is most likely going to happen to me when the twins arrive. Yes, i said twins. One boy and one girl. My mother has called adoption agencies and etc, but i have turned them all down, truly i want to keep my children, granted the father is an asswhole. When i feel them kicking to the sound of my voice it rips me apart to think i would give them up. I thought i'd talk to you since you were 15 when you were preg. So any advice for a 14year old soon to be mom?
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First off think about it this way have you ever watching law n order. from the shows oliva was a child of a mother who was raped. you have to stay strong and i have faith in you. I was raped 3 times. thank god i didnt get pregnant. but at 15 i planned my child. i wanted a baby yes its hard and i hope you have your families support you wanting to raise these children. one day when they are older you will have to tell them what their father did to you and you have to tell them why you keep them. you are keeping them because you are a good person. who see's because of what this man did to you doesnt mean for you to punish the lives of young children who have a future.. okay now child birth not going to lie painful. not going to lie GET AN EPIDURAL dont wait till its to late to want one. they dont mess up your backs have the doctor explain to you what the shot does. how do they do it. the shot doesnt even hurtyou are to much pain from the contractions.. which get soo much better after the epidural. it numbs you from the waist down. and its amazing. motherhood is great i love it. sleepless nights but i was a night owl any ways. my two year old whos about to be 3 is a handful but i wouldnt trade him. i wouldnt change my mind about my past any questions let me no hun and good luck and dont worry im pregnant again and pretty nervous.
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