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i wanna get over him SOOOO!!! bad what do i do?
Me and my ex were going out for about 10 months he was the first boy i really loved and we just broke up like we had nothing so every since then ( which was about 2 months ago) ive been trying to get over him and i think that ive tried just about everything like finding a new hobby focusing on school more i doesnt work because so many things remind me of him so what do you do when u cant get over the one you said i love you too when every thing in your life was going upside DOWN? PLEZZZ help me i want to get him outta my system.
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I completely know how you feel.
I know it hurts it sucks at the fact you have cared so much for this person. And now the way their acting its almost as if this perosn never even loved you in the first place. Believe me I wish there was a manual in which you could refer to everytime a guy broke your heart but unfortunately theres not. It takes time for your heart to heal but you can't give up on what's going around you in your life. Don't let this one guy make you miserable just know that you're too young to worry about this one guy. There's plenty more out there and you know what? You might not want to date right now which is understandable and its okay.
Some of the things I have done in the past is deactivated my facebook so then I wouldn't "see" or the things that would be written on this page. Another thing that I realized is, is that I'm too good for him...in terms of the break-up its his loss yes you are at a loss but its him who is missing out on a girl like you who cares. This may not seem much right now but as you get older you realize some people come in and out of your life for a reason and others stick around. He was special to you, but he wasn't meant to be or maybe he's just too immature right now. Sadly as girls or women we tend to care way too much and I think thats what hurts us in the end. At one point in my life I cared more about the guys I was dating then myself which is not good at all. Right now you need to take care of you and I know its hard but think about you be selfish. Start thinking of hobbies that maybe you wanted to try, maybe even try having a girls night, treating yourself, or anything that makes you happy.
For right now take care of yourself and over time you'll heal it may not seem that way now but you will.
Hang in there and if you have any more questions please feel free to ask me! Happy Holidays!
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