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I'm 100% clueless.
I really need help.
okay, so i have a bestfriend.
but theres so many problems.
i love her so much, its just like i cant live with or without her! whenever its just me and her, things are PERFECT. whenever someone else is around, she acts like im noone. im invisible. im a ghost. its horrible. like, i feel so clueless and helpless. noone understands how i feel.
please, please. someone help me? :(
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Believe me, I understand completely what you are going through. When you are with her, shes a person you feel like you can't live without. You tell her everything and anything, and she always seems to be supporting you. But whenever your around other people, it's like everyone and anyone is more important than you. You kind of feel used in a way. The thing is, she is taking you for granted. You can live without someone but you choose not to, thats how everyone works! You need to tell her this and how your feeling, you don't deserve this. If she decides to make this a conflict when you confront her about this or just completely ignore it, then you really need to rethink your friendship with her. Just because when your with someone they are perfect does that mean they are worth all the pain you get when their around other people. I really do hope this friendship works out, but you need to know that you are worth more than how you are being treated by your friend. Never let someone tell you/ treat you like your nothing, because in the end, its just going to backfire on them. Just talk to her, she might not be realizing this, but if she ignores it, rethink the friendship completely! Neep any more help, ask me! (:*
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You need to tell your friend how you feel, maybe she doesn't realize she is doing it. Or maybe she even does it on purpose, which in that case I think you could live without her. I'm in the same situation- It will all work out, things will always be for the better. Maybe you think you can't live without her, but the day you leave her- you'd become a strong person , look for more trustworthy friends. <3
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I have been in this situation and my friend and i quit being friends because it was as if she was just using me to have someone their for her when she was bored. Talk to her first let her know how you feel.
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