She is now saying that everyone she talks to hates me and she is teasing me about my grades even tho i have straight A's and so does she. I triend going into advanced math but when i switched to regular she made fun of me for not making it. she told me she doesnt need me anymore and that i dont have any friends and that she has a signed note by some of my friends from math (shes in my math class) saying im obnoxious when i know im not. i dont know what to do and it would really help if you could give me some more advice. its wierd cuz she is one of she nices girls i know. i just wish i could get her to stop but if i tell she'll show our math teacher the note thats signed and ill be overpowered even tho i've been nothing but nice to those girls.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? Alilash answered Tuesday December 1 2009, 6:46 pm: I'm really sorry that this girl bothering you so much! No one deserves that! But it sounds to me, she is by far jealous of you. She knows your weaknesses and tries to control you with them. She says she doesn't need you anymore, well on the other hand you don't need her either. I know the easier way to you is to just be friends with her, than feel like your all alone. If you know your not obnoxious, try not to keep thinking about it, even know I know it can be really hard at times. Sometimes when I feel horrible, I make a huge list of what I love about myself and it makes me feel a lot better even when I'm crying my eyes out over something I look back on and see was not worth crying over. I just got out of a horrible friendship with two girls I trusted a lot. But it turned out that I made a lot more friends, and realized who would be there for me and who wouldn't. By her treating you crappy, I promise you a hundred percent she will feel the same way as you do right now one day. I say just hold your head up high, ignore the girl, and try to make some new friends.
(&& by the way, if the girl trys to get to you, just laugh, and turn away. This will make her furious knowing that she isn't getting to you. But if this starts to get out of hand, no matter what, tell an adult! I know you don't want to be a "tattle-tale" but believe me it will help a lot!)
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