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so im surrounded by people who cause problems in my life who are very difficult to talk to soooo....who should i talk to when there is no body to talk to??
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It would be impossible to get away from EVERYONE in your life that is causing you problems. Your goal might be to change the way you interact with them... but that is a different topic, I guess.
It sounds like you need a fresh start with fresh people. You obviously can't just pick up and leave everything for a new start somewhere else (though maybe it feels like you want to?) I would suggest starting small.
Could you join a new group somewhere (take a class through the REC center in your town, perhaps, for whatever you are interested in) or start volunteering to do something for someone. Figure out what you like to do... maybe you could volunteer to walk someone's dog or even go to a pet shelter to help out? You could go to a senior center (nursing home) to vounteer. It doesn't always take a lot of time... even if you just have an hour, once a week... you could make a fresh start with someone. Start with ONE person that you like spending time with and talking to.
It might sound scary if you are kind of shy (I know I am... I get shaky at the thought of starting something new. I have found, though, that once you start it isn't as bad as you thought. I just started delivering meals on wheels in my town one day a week. I was very nervous. I just did the deliveries for the first time today. It was actually fun.). The key is finding something that you like to do and then finding just one person that you like.
Good luck!
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If these people cause problems, why not get rid of them? You shouldn't have people in your life who cause you nothing but trouble. If they aren't doing anything good for you, then drop them & find people who will benefit you for the better. It's that simple.
But, if you need someone to talk to, you can e-mail me anytime. I'll listen & try to help the best that I can. If you need my e-mail, just inbox me.
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Well, on here is a great place. It's anonomyous (sp?). We don't know you, so you know you'll be getting honest answers. But, do you have a guidance counselor?, teacher?, a friend?, anybody. Sometimes you just need to let your feelings out and just vent and forums and this place is a great place for it and you can get some advice on your "issues" or whatever it it.
Hope everything is all right. Leave an inbox if you want to talk more personal? =]
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