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I feel left out.
Let me start from the beginning. First it was two of my friends that started out close. *Lauren and Becky* well then a couple years later I join their little group in second grade. Then another person joins in in third , Ashley*. Well Ashley moved away and now we have a new friend name *Mika. Well than in eigth grade, *Jessie cam along and was obsessed with Becky. Like her little pet. Well now Mika* Is all around the older class and basically ignores us now. But now there is Lexi* and Dani*. I've noticed lately that my friends write on eachothers walls about how much they love eachother everyday and yet, I get none. NONE. I'm started to feel unloved but not just by my friends, but I'm starting to feel ugly. Sure they talk to me sometimes but I just dont know how they feel about me. I know they have changed since high school and maybe we are all starting to drift but I feel like I'm staying the same. I feel ugly because none of the guys at my school want to talk to me but just my friends. I'm starting to think my mom lied to me. She said I was the prettiest out of all my friends on which I can sometimes agree but then sometimes I strongly disagree. This may sound evil but I grabbed a photo of all my friends and did a yahoo question on which was cutest and I got most of them. But why am I like the only one without a guy around my arms? Starting to feel really left out,alone, and against the world. I'm a shy girl I guess I should admit. I just want a friend like on tv and a guy for me. Ugh. Sorry. This was mostly just a LONG rant about my life. But I would be happy if I did get on advice.
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i know exactly how you feel, something very similar happened to me freshman year of hs. except unlike you, i wasn't pretty like all my friends, and they started to leave me and started to hang out with older boys and i was never invited to be with them anymore. it really killed me, because i considered them my best best friends. by novemberish of that year, i just gave up and decided to just let it be and wait until something good happened to me, and stop trying to get them to like me again. so i was alone for a while, of course i had other friends but not the same as them. i was also very shy like you, but i can tell from what you've said thaty ou're probably pretty. then in january, i might my best friend and started hagning out with her.i realized that she was such a good friend, and a caring and selfless person. we're juniors now, and we're still bestbestbest friends. now about all the girls that ditched me, we eventually started hanging out again once they got over themselves, and i'm very close again with a few of them. but still, i would never consider them a true true friend again or completely trust them because of waht they did in 9th grade. freshman year is hard enough, it's even worse when your old friends start to leave you out. what i would recommend is just act like you don't care about them, because you shouldn't. things change sooo much throughout highschool, in 1 or 2 years or even less this problem will be way blown over and you won't be worrying about it at all. also just try to act really outgoing, THAT is probably the reason guys like them and not you. just talk and be involved in convos as much as you can (but don't be annoying) and guys will start to like you if your funny and outgoing. just ignore your mean friends and don't worry about them leaving you out, because it will change soon. try to hang out with other friends, and you can even meet guys through that. even if you don't have other girl friends right now, make them! or find the closest girl acquaintance or inschool friend you have, and ask her to hang out a few times. just remember, this will all get better..and i know how it feels, freshman year was the worst year of my life by far. just get through it..and talk to guys..and you'll end up being happier than your old friends that are leaving you out.
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