He said he liked me now he wont even text me. I dont know what is going on.
Question Posted Monday November 23 2009, 10:09 pm
18 f
Okay so i met this boy... Lets call him J. He is an awesome guy we talked for a few weeks and hung out and stuff until one night I stood the night at the house. Now let me make it clear that he did say he liked me and I told him the same but I cant start anything because Im leaving in january for 5 months.... Okay So anyways I stayed the night at his house one night and things got heated lets just put it that way. But ever since then he hasnt texted me or anything he'll answer back if I text him but it's only one word answers. SO I was just wondering if I should text him and bluntly ask if Ill be wasting my time trying to continue talking to him or just keep trying to see whats up... Im not gonna cry over it or anything ill get over it but I dont know, it just bugs me when people start ignoring me.... Now now, what should I do?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? heather01 answered Wednesday November 25 2009, 3:26 pm: hey girl, dont text him. forget him. let him text you. dont get worked up about it bc he seems like a jerk. im gonna be completely honest caz ive gone thru what you went thru and it sounds like he jus used you as a hook up and doesnt want you as anything more which is why he isnt txtn you as much to hint around that hes not interested. the best advice i could give you is move on he isnt worth it.
goodluck!
dearcandore answered Tuesday November 24 2009, 4:32 pm: Don't text him. Just take this as a lesson that the quickest way to drive away a guy you like is to hook-up with him right away. Where's the incentive to get to know you if he gets it right away? You messed up. It happens. We've all been there. Next time you meet a guy you like, spend some time letting him get to know you. With sex off the table he'll have a better opportunity to get to know all the wonderful things about you that make you special and a great catch. And if and when the time for a physical relationship comes, it will be much more fulfilling knowing the guy your with really cares for YOU and not just sex. [ dearcandore's advice column | Ask dearcandore A Question ]
Shortii2020 answered Tuesday November 24 2009, 2:40 pm: No offense but i think you should get over this guy and fast. I only think he said that he liked you for a booty call that 2 time. When he got what he wanted, he find someone else.
For this reason, get over that guy. Dont waste your time on someone like that. There are other BETTER guys out there. Take your time and Mr.Right will soon appear. Hope i helped. [ Shortii2020's advice column | Ask Shortii2020 A Question ]
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