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my boyfriend is mean and lies to me alot
i have been with my boyfriend for 3years he lies to me about talken to his x-girlfriend.i caught and had the proof,but he still lies adout it.he also is mean to me im 33 years old he is 36 i do everything for him but he treats me like crap most of the time i ask him why he is like that to me but he say he dont think he is mean.i just cant leave him and i dont no why.we really dont have a sex life he say he is not into sex that much but he has cheated on me 2 times what should i do to help our relationship.im always cring and im not myself anymore.please help me
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I really think that you're in this relationship for the comfort. Being single would make you uncomfortable because you're used to how being in a relationship feels.
I think you need to end this relationship. Clearly you're unhappy with it, and don't feel as if you're yourself anymore. Your boyfriend sounds a little abusive to me. He may not be abusive physically, but he is definitely emotionally abusive towards you. He's cheated on you, he lies to you, and he puts you through hell with little to no shame for his actions. He's also in denial about having a mean streak.
You deserve better. And at this point in your life, you should well know that you don't deserve the bullshit he's putting you through. End the relationship & take some time out for yourself before going into another relationship. Have fun being single. Go out for drinks with girlfriends, talk to your parents - really try & re-establish those relationships if they've dwindled.
I don't think you should do anything to help your current relationship with this man. The best thing you can do is to end it. There is no helping someone who refuses to see a problem. The first step to a better life is admitting that there's a problem. If he can't admit it, he'll never get better. End the relationship & take a mental health day. You're better off being single, independent and strong. You're 33. You don't need a man to make you happy or who you are.
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