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Ruining everything?
So in april i met my current man, hes black im white. and my dad jus happens to be racist. my mom knows about my boyfriend and i know she would like him if she met him..my dad jus doesnt open up to anything really and one day when i tell him or he finds out its going to tear the family apart. We already dont talk, and he knows i dont like him. The only reason i stay here is for my mom, plus im underage. I am in love with my boyfriend and there isnt really anything i can do at this point. i feel lost. Help?
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If you love your boyfriend it should not matter what people say. My mother is involved with a black male and she is white. I hate him not because he is black but the things he and his family does. My mothers father is racist and hates it he wont even say hello to my mother or even look at her. Her mother still comes and sees her they go out to lunch once in a whle and talks on the phone. You have to do what you think is right your father will either get over it or stay mad and miss out on a lot.
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You will always have people that just doesn't accept a girl/guy dating outside of his/her race.
Sometimes it's hard to ignore little comments especially if their from your own parents.
Since your underage, unfortunately they can stop you to an extent from seeing him. I would sit them both down and explain to them everything. Before you do this, you could invite him over for dinner and tell them he's a friend until they open up more.
If they still don't like him, that's when I would tell them that you're dating. Sometimes you think that the news you have, will most likely make your parents go off, but sometimes it's the opposite.
At this point, you just have to see what happens.
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