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i just feel hopeless for ever getting a boyfriend.
I'm 16 and I've never had a boyfriend.I don't think I'm that bad looking.I'm about 5'5 ,brown hair,kinda tan,hazel eyes,etc.you know,..average looking.For some reason,guys begin to talk to me and then after a few weeks ,they just either hate me or stop talking to me completely.It's happend with every guy i've ever talked to.One guy used me to hookup for three years,he now has a girlfriend and won't even accept my friend request on facebook,one guy told me he only sees me as a friend (after "talking talking" for like 3 monthes) the next guy told me i'm annoying with my friends and that im a slut (even though i didnt even kiss him),the next guy is a complete nerd and we kissed ONE time and then he hasn't talked to me since and we talked for a few weeks before that and he tries to get all my friends now?I don't know what to do.The most recent one was the nerd kid ,and I'm WAYYYY out of his league and i actually really liked him and i felt i could be myself around him and then he just stopped talking to me and tries talking to really pretty girls ,thinking he can hookup with them and not saying a word to me.I think he built a confidence wall after I kissed him the other night,since he hasnt kissed anyone since 8th grade! There's another guy who is talking to me,but I don't even know if I should give it a shot because im sick of just getting let down ! why is this happening to only me! all of my friends have boyfriends !
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GIRL I FEEL YOU! i am the EXACT same way as you..except i barely even 'talk' to guys for that longgg. i honestly feel depressed everyday because i'm alone and i think something is wrong with me because it never works out for me to have a boy. like something ALWAYS goes wrong and im so sick of it. i dont handle it the right way though i just feel depressed and i drink a lot..ha i kinda need help too. but just know its NOT YOUR FAULT. like honestly NOTHING is wrong with you it just so happens that it never works out, but everything happens for a reason. just keep thinking thatt. i just answered this question to tell you your not the only one haha. let me know what happens thoughh ! you can inbox me.
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Let me tell you something - I was in your shoes when I was 16. Every single one of my friends had a boyfriend and I didn't. In fact I didn't have a serious boyfriend til I was 18. It sucked at the time. But, you're 16. You have plenty of time to get serious with a boyfriend. And the ones you mentioned in your question don't even sound worthy of you. Just enjoy being young - and when you least expect it love will find you. Believe me, that's when it happens - when you're not looking for it. Don't settle for anything less than the best for you. Because I assure you, most of your friends boyfriends are probably not that great in the first place. Don't seek a boyfriend just to have one - that's never the good road to take, because you'll end up with someone that isn't that great and then you'll still be unhappy. Good luck! :)
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