im a girl. obv. ok so ive nver been fingered but i plan on it soon. so i have no clue what happens? my bf says my pants stay on so we can be safe but life how would i sit or lay or stand? helppp
MissSunshine135 answered Friday October 30 2009, 3:21 pm: Sweetie, It would be a little difficult for fingering to happen while your pants are still on. The act of fingering is when your boyfriend inserts a finger or two in your vagina and makes an in and out motion or a motion that resembles telling someone to "Come here" The only way you can experiment with pants still on is when he has a hard on and grinds up against you...this is called Dry humping. Don't rush anything. [ MissSunshine135's advice column | Ask MissSunshine135 A Question ]
thelaura answered Wednesday October 28 2009, 6:51 pm: How can he finger you if your pants stay on? Does he mean just rubbing the area or something else? You need to ask him to be a bit more specific with that one.
and for your first time, I suggest just lying down.
and please make sure you really want to go furher with your boyfriend. (considering this says you're only 14)
and remember, if it hurts or feels uncomfortable, don't be afraid to say stop. :)
Good luck. [ thelaura's advice column | Ask thelaura A Question ]
seductive_eyes89 answered Wednesday October 28 2009, 6:51 pm: what does he mean by safe any way you could take your pants off itll be easier but he just fingers you if your standing your usaully spead your legs and if your laying down you do the same its the guy that does the work for you make sure hes not to rough thats important and make sure he doesnt over stretch you as well but no worries hunny just let it happen and if hes good woow it feels good so relax and go with it goodluck :) [ seductive_eyes89's advice column | Ask seductive_eyes89 A Question ]
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