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differents groups of friends
17/f
ok, so ever since high school, i've always been part of different groups of friends. Right now, im friends with tom-boyish girls that aren't all pretty made-up faces, and another group that is all made-up faced and into boys. They are different groups of people but they aren't too different, like to the point where if u bring them together there could be a massive cat-fight.. So they aren't too different, they just dont exactly like each other a whole lot, they dont mind each other though.. I hope im making sense.
Well, i was just wondering what does this mean? Im finishing high school this year and starting uni next year.. Could this mean that im still 'searching for myself'? But i feel like i know who i am already. Or could this mean im not a cliche? Like i dont fall into a clique like in those typical American movies..? Or could this mean im two-faced? I seriously doubt this one, because im still the same person in both groups.. Fun-loving and goofy..
Sorry this is so long..
Thank you though.. :)
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Having different groups of friends is natural. Personalities are never just 'one type' - you won't always have just 'one personality' - and obviously the groups that are your friends, like you as you are - hence why they don't mind your other friends - that isn't of importance to them.
I can also tell you, that most likely once you start university - you will find a new group of friends and a new identity (we grow up and learn a lot more when in a different environment). This doesn't mean that you have not found yourself - to me it seems as if you have, but just remember that the self is ever changing - we always learn and change.
I think you have a strong group of friends who have influenced you in the right way. Of course you know who you are already, but this changes - and its called growth =) life is actually wonderful, even if it has crazy changes!
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no definetely not! I think what your doing is awsome! you never want to put all your eggs in one basket(sorry for that cliche) having different groups of friends is awsome becasue it introduces you too different types of people, and gives more opportunities too make new friends. i personally think falling into a tight little click is immuture, and petty. being friends with differnt types of people makes you an all around better likes person.
so no, i dont think your being two faced, or trying to still find yourself. i think what your doing is great!
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