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"open kiss" & hates tounge!
i'm just going to come straigh out with this. i'm 19 years old. i've never "opened kissed" a guy before if thats what you want to call it. i've madeout with guys before and i HATE it. i'm definately straight, i just dont like the feeling. never been in a real relationship either and ive been told that im very attractive and alot of guys have tried getting to know me but i push them away because i dont want that awkward kiss to come. if i told a guy i didnt like french kissing, he'd probably think i was crazy and stop talking to me. and how exactly do you open kiss? do you bascially kind of suck on the persons lip a little? uggghh. this kissing this is whats keeping me from having a relationship because i'm so embarassed. everyone expects me to be experienced because what i look like.. but im not. at all. still a virgin:) and will be for awhile but the kissing thing... ADVICE!?
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If you hate french kissing, someone's doing it wrong.
You aren't supposed to eat each other's faces or shove tongues down each other's throats. As retarded as this probably sounds, its a dance. One person can't dance for two, but usually someone's got to lead, and you can't expect to pull off a perfect tango your first trip around the floor.
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I'm 22 years old and have been in several relationships, I still hate french kissing. There's nothing wrong with that. I feel like the guy is trying to eat my face, hehehe. What I do is like what advicemistress said, peck, break away, and suck on their lips. If they start using tongue, I just start kissing their neck or nibbling on their lower lip.
Don't do thing that make you uncomfortable. It's ok that you are not experienced. You're still growing up. I didn't have my first kiss till I was 18 years old in College.
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I actually didn't get my kiss until was 18 was a senior in high school at the time. It was so nervous wracking because my boyfriend at the time me much forced his tongue down my throat meanwhile we had 40 year old Virgin on. It was a VERY awkward situation! What you should do is if you don't like tongue then don't do it...I hated tongued for a long time because guys do it differently. What I did for the longest time was just suck their lips and that was fun and all but itgets boring after awhile. What you should do for kissing is PLT! First you Peck the guy on the lips and then back away from his lips. Second go back and start Sucking on his lips. Then finally when you feel ready or when he does just massage your Tongue with his.
Remember PLT (Peck, Lips, and Tongue)
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