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kids interfearing with my gf not even her kid! help?!
so i love my gf very much i am a lesbian and her roomates 3 yr old is very attached to her he is a brat and gets whatever he wants he doesnt even sleep in his own bed i love kids but somethin bout this kid drives me nuts. she has said to me before or other ppl hes like my own son and she cares about him a lot i feel like im jealous of this kid but im really not but its tot he point when shes gotta babysit the little boy on early days i dont even wanna stay cuz he gets in her bed when i stay and shes all cuddled with him and ignores me in the bed and i said its cool hes more important to you she says think what you want what should i do?
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Seems to me like you're jealous. You even said it yourself & then tried to deny it. Face it, you're jealous of a 3 year old.
Your girlfriend loves him as if he were her own, and there is an obvious attachment that she has back with him. You can't make her choose between you & the kid because her choice may be one you dislike.
I think you need to learn to accept this. You're jealous of a child, and you're letting a child get in the way of your relationship. My boyfriend's niece is kinda bratty, but she isn't ruining my relationship. Get over it & quick because if you keep up the jealousy thing, your girlfriend is going to ditch you.
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Honestly. I have a six year old step son. I am 18 years old with a two year old going on three. It went from me and my son to me my son, a husband and another child and I am pregnant. Talked about It took over a year to get pregnant again and right before i did i said lets wait till we are more sturdy and what happens a baby lol. any who my six year old lives with his grandparents on my husbands side and we dont want to take custdy of him (my husband was young when he had him and the mother didnt want him so they took gurdianship) because hes very attached and a spoiled brat. i love him to death but he is a brat. he is getting better now that he isnt an only child.
you have to deal with the little boy. there are reasons hes attached to your girlfriend. is his father is his life. i mean little things and when you two move in together it will be hard on him and when he starts a daycare it will be hard but once he gets used to other kids things might get better. that little boy is very important and just taking your girlfriend away from him would hurt him. just put up with it. hes three. like i tell my husband my son is two he doesnt know right from wrong he wants to be close and always wants to play. my husband hates it sometimes but has to deal with it.
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Well, you really only have two options:
Suck it up and deal
or
Move on.
She said she loves him like a son, and to try to wedge them apart is a quick way for her to kick you to the curb.
So, suck up and deal, or take yourself to the curb.
Sorry. That's just the way it goes sometimes.
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