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amazing man. bad sex
i am falling in love with a man. the feelings are crazy and ive honestly never felt this way about any one else. there is only one problem, the sex. ive had wonderful sex in my past and the sex with this guy is just not good. i dont even find myself wanting to sleep with him. i want to fix it sooo bad; i just do not know how. any tips?
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When I first met my boyfriend, he had a hard time having an erection. It was embarrassing for him and I felt bad. He told me he wanted Viagra, but I didn't want him to do that.
We explored different positions and techniques. Now, he's an amazing lover. I have never cummed so much in my life.
I would talk to him about how you feel. Men want to be able to please there partner. Try doing different techniques. I found the missionary style works best with him. Also we do a lot of foreplay and roleplaying.
Also, if he's doing any drugs (medication or illegal) it could be a reason why the sex isn't good.
My Ex, had a very small penis. We found that doggie style was best.
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Talk!
Talk!
TALK!
I know it's hard, but Hope is NOT a plan.
So talk it out. You might start with the very simple question:
"Honestly, what are your thoughts on our sex life?"
The trick to these difficult conversations, is to make sure it's clear that they are two-way thing, you might be the one who really feels the need to share the problem, but he's got a equal right to think and share his opinions and perspective. It's not about you telling him what to do, it's about you both sharing, aloud and clearly what you like in bed.
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