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ex-boyfriend ruining my reputation
hi, well this is going to be a very long story.
well i had a boyfriend in may and i met him througth my friend who was a girl and we were dating and then i got confused on wethier i wanted to be with him or not and relationship got worse and worse and he just kept clinging to me, and he had problems of his own. one of his worst problems was jealously and i knew a lot of people he knew and he didn't know it and on one of our good days in our relationship i was on the phone with him and he heard me typing on the computer and he was like who are you talking to on the computer? and i was like ... lets say the kids name is rob, and i was like rob. and he FLIPPED out and was like he gonna try and get with you and went off and i read him the conversation that me and the kid rob had cause we were talking on myspace and rob said wats up and i was like nothing really lazy and my ex flipped and he was like why are you telling him your lazy wtf, and then he was like i'm gonna call rob and tell him not to talk to you and so he did but me and rob kept on talking, and we talked for a few weeks and i sort of was starting to like him then, my friend lets say her name is samantha samantha asked if i wanted to hangout with rob and his friend one day after school and i was like ohkay, but it never happend i told my ex and he flipped out cause i didn't want him coming and we got in a big fight about it. weeks later i told my ex i needed some space some time to think i wasn't sure about things anymore and he was like ohkay fine you treat me like shit your acting mad shady so i need time to think to, so i was like ohkay so one day after school i asked rob if he wanted to hangout with me and my friend then i called him and he said he had to get ready for work. then my ex called me but i didn't answer then my friend took the phone called him up and told him infront of me that while i was sort of on a break with him that i liked rob and he flipped out and cursed me out soo many times then we broke up and he told me that he was going to jump rob and then rob said he didn't want to talk to me anymore cause he did'nt want problems with my ex & then my ex went out with my friend samantha right after me.
now, that was in june and also in june after they broke up him and samantha he called me the day they broke up saying he couldn't stop thinking about me and that he didn't mean to curse me out and then i found out he knocked out rob and i hadn't talken to rob at all he hated me for that
and then i told my ex i couldn't talk to him because he went out with samantha and he told me her would never go out with any of my close friends ever, and then he kept calling me when he drunk trying to get me to call him back all summer and saying that i fucked him over talking to rob and how they were good friends and then in september i found out that he jumped rob and threw him into a car all because he still hated him because of me when rob told me he never wanted to talk to me ever again because he didn't want problems with my ex and shit, and then all of robs friend got involved and he became this big brawl of fighting because i was flirting with rob and started talking to him, and then now i just found out my ex jumped him again yestuarday half of the people i used to talk to wont talk to me anymore because of my ex jumping him and they all feel its because of me because my ex keeps wanting to fight him and no matter what my name keeps on getting brought up in it when i told my ex that rob didn't do anything wrong but my ex wouldn't listen to me and i refuse to take any of my exes calls i feel like half the highschool hates me because of what my ex is doing is it really all my fault? what should i do? help me.
- 14/f
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Well this is all your Ex's insecurities coming out which is not good! I would at this point tell a teacher, parent, or someone with authority. He can't just go around jumping people its not right...what you should do is block all contact with this kid because he sounds like he's crazy and he sounds like he needs some help. Ask your parents if maybe you can change your number because what he is doing to you is a form of harassment and that has to be taken seriously. You NEED to get this guy out of your life for good!
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I really don't have an answer because at your age, you are going to have many boyfriends. I don't mean to sleep with...just guy friends. That's all you should be right now. I feel bad for you because you are so upset. I know if I say it'll get better or whatever, you don't want to probably hear that either.
Just relax and say the heck with it...go on and live your life and like the commercial says.."never let them see you sweat."
Also, you know what makes bullies and people who tick you off, really mad? Just smile in their face like you don't really care and then believe it. I'm older so this is probably just yapyap to you but I do care about your feelings. I hope you are doing better.
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