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why does he hate me?
14/f
no one's ever treated me like this before, and it's just small little things, but it's getting on my nerves.
He's basically avoiding me.
A couple weeks ago I met this guy, he seemed like a bit of a jerk but I talked with him pleasantly enough, but then he said he could mistake me for a boy.. well, that's where that prospective friendship ended. I didn't get mad, I just didn't say anything at all and moved onto a different conversation.
We don't have any classes together but during passing periods when we pass each other I've caught him looking at me a couple times, and he always looks away really quickly and seems to disappear. Like he's on the run and avoiding me.
Just the other day I needed into the school after hours (long story), so I ran up to him and said, "Hey, wait, let me come in too." And he is suddenly like 3 feet ahead of me holding the door open a bit and starts to say "yeah", but me being the confident, quick-paced girl I am, I walked right in, said "thanks" and went off to get my brother. Later I needed to come back and he was blocking the door from his friend, and I start to say, "Excuse me," when all the sudden he's on the other freaking side of the room, door unblocked.
I've never been avoided like this before. It's rare that I don't get along with someone. I never said ONE mean thing to him, but he calls me a boy and suddenly avoids me.... what the crap?
my friend says he could be scared of me, but how could that be? I'm a good half foot shorter than him, and he can lift a guy his own size so he could probably freakin break me in half.
kids love me, so I'm obviously not scary...
It's just bugging me to not know why someone is avoiding me.
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He's probably just being childish or immature. Ignore him and live your life. He's just being silly. If he's ignoring you or anything, that's HIS problem, NOT YOURS! So move on.. You and your friends, and everyone that is worth caring about knows that you're not a scary person or whatever, so don't be bothered by this one guy who calls you a boy and then avoids you. Who cares about him!
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I dont think he hates you and i dont think he likes you. Theres jut something about you he finds curious and interesting yet he doesnt want to make any commitment. Im wondering if maybe you might find him just as he finds you curious obviously its on your mind and i do think its on his mind too. I think he is just trying to make sure he doesnt give you the "wink Wink" idea that he likes you so he runs away hoping to give you the idea that he is not interested in you in that way. I hope this helps
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