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Should I just give up or are there other options?
Hi folks, looking for any and all advice. My question pertains to my web site. [Link](Mouse over link to see full location) All the information I have is contained within three main pages, story pt1, pt 2 and latest. My question, is after you have read the site what do you think I should do? What options do I have? How much effort should I put in? Should I leave it till she's older? lol, loads of questions, guess I'm just looking for advice. Anything will be appreciated and thanks for your time in getting this far.
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You totally missed my point about you people putting that child on the internet.
Obviously you only saw what you wanted to see in what I said. YOU ARE EXPOSING SENSITIVE INFORMATION ABOUT AN INNOCENT 9 YEAR OLD.
That is by NO MEANS OKAY.
If that's the best you can come up with...
As a mother, I'd love to stick my foot in both of your asses for the sake of that little girl.
Seriously. If my husband did that to my children, I'd skin him alive.
THINK ABOUT IT.
P.S.
I also add, that the information I obtained about your daughter, her mother, you, aren't just from the video you linked to. See, I looked around your site. You have other links posted there.
Like I said.
Any dedicated child molester can hunt her down with the information you have both put out there about her.
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"...provide her mother with an avenue to contact me with her lawyers details so I can sort this situation out the correct way"
Why doesn't YOUR lawyer contact the mother's lawyers? That is their job to find her. If they can't find her, hire a private detective to find how to contact her, and then they can turn that information over to the courts.
I don't think either of you are doing the right thing. I understand you are trying to do all that you can to reach your child. I would be too, believe me.
However, you're both exploiting her to the world on the internet.
You don't know who I am, but I now know her name, her mother's name, your name, what she looks like, what her mother looks like, her age, that she has a rare condition, and I have a general idea of where she lives...should I go on?
All of this information, I got from your site, by what you've said, and links you've posted.
Sure, her mother is bad for putting her on TV, but you are doing her no better by advertising them on your site.
I can't say I understand what you are going through, but I do understand why you are doing this. Just because your actions are understandable doesn't make them right.
I hope you get to contact your daughter, but posting all of this, including such sensitive information about an innocent 9 year old, for a world full of strangers is wrong. Especially considering a child pervert could take the information and hunt her down.
Think about it.
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ADDED INFORMATION: Again, I think you need to realize your actions, You made a website for your daughter to see. I get that...BUT your daughter is only 9 years old she is a minor and by you posting a website about her personal information you are violating her privacy possibly exploiting her to perverts like Mangy had said below me. If you really want a relationship with your daughter than I think you really need to handle the situation PRIVATELY. God only knows what she will think when she gets older...finding out that her own father had posted a website with intentions to finding her. "In my opinion, Creepy" Not only would I probably NOT want to get to know you but I certainly wouldn't be happy with you making a public website containing information for EVERYONE to see. I said it once I'll say it again grow up and start acting like a parent.
If I remember right this post sounds familiar and DN had suggested that this question should be taken to court?
Anyway,
I think you need to stop asking the question because this is a matter that really is out of our hands and should be resolved between you and the father as well as a lawyer and a court. Right now from the website you have posted your daughter is a minor and underage therefore if you want to wait until she gets older that is up to you. You ARE the parent and it is your job to make choices and raise your child. However, I think you need to stop exploiting your child on the internet because that IS what you last complained about in your last question that was posted a few months back. This matter needs to be handled privately between you and her father you are the parents start acting like it.
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