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mad at my moms boyfriend
I hate my mom's boyfriend mainly cause everything has to be in his control. I feel like he has like a self-esteem issue and he is making us do things we don't even need to do for him. I think that cause he is not white that he feels like everyone thinks badly of him. And when I feel like this it makes me feel like he is getting in my space. Everyone even my mom has to make me feel sorry because I do not do what he wants its like I am being punished for it too. Wouldn't you call that some type of wrong treatment. And the things I ask for is so little just to get a makeup at the mall. And its like he is upset with it. Sometimes the extra money my mom makes goes to him to buy him his toiletry stuff. Its getting on my nerves and I can not have money for the mall right now that I don't have a job. I want to go get a job but since there is something that I have to work at first to get a job I am left just waiting.
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Sorry to hear that your going thru this difficult moment for you. I really hope your not upset that your shopping habbits are being interupted. I know the mal is important but dont let that be the reason you dont like this guy. If he is abusive and is trying to touch you in any way that you do not like or is not right then id talk to my mom and get some help (police) the #1 thing is he respects your mom and you and your siblings ( if any) 2. not ever get physical or abusive. 3 not be a leech in other words get you mom to feed clothe him in other words be a lazy bum. He needs to help out and be a good male role model to you. girls also need male role models as much as guys do and vise versa. My advice is to build a strong communication relationship with your mom thats so incredibly important for girls and boys to do!! alwasy get along with a parent thats your biggest friend and your biggest advantage. if you build a strong relationship with your mom then you can express to her the difficulty that you are having in adapting this guy into your life and if you do have a strong relationship with your mom she will set you as priority.work on that first then the mall shopping thing other wise your mom will think its just you having personal issues against her new love interest because you cant shop anymore the way you use to. You need to beat him in being your moms best friend you need to make sure she trusts you not him but you need to work at it. again you dont her as your enemy she needs to be your friend not his. dont let her think your a bratty spoiled person instead let her see your for the intellegent, caring loving resposible person you are. I hope this helps
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