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I just kind of want a guys perspective on something. If a girl that you don't know well, but you see around & have some friends in common with randomly asked you to chill, would it strike you as awkward? There's this guy, Rob, who I've kind of been scopin at parties & things lately, and I know he knows who I am, and I think I can safely say he's at least somewhat attracted to me? But we don't chill aside from getting baked in the same house a lot. So if I were to just like, message him on facebook (HAHA yeaa, I'm that cool) when he was online sometime and be like "guess what, I think you're hot. wanna get baked sometime?", do you think it would be cute & forward or kind of slutty & awkward? :) thanks in advance guys, sorry I'm not super eloquent but ya!
mossett answered Wednesday October 7 2009, 4:45 pm: Maybe dont say anything like "you are hot." you being attracted to him doesnt really have much to do with smoking weed. I wouldnt call it slutty but im not sure if I would call it cute either. maybe it is forward and awkward? haha. but why not just ask him if he wants to chill? that way its just like you just wanted to hang out, not like you wanted to get in his pants.
hotpotato answered Wednesday October 7 2009, 4:33 pm: Unless you want your hangout where you get baked next time to be a hookup too, don't tell him he's hot lol. It might give off the wrong impression. Since you have mutual friends, it wouldn't be weird to ask if you guys wanted to get baked alone to know each other better. I don't think he'd think anything of it. You could be like, "Hey, I've seen you around. Wanna get baked together (just us) sometime?" You don't have to add the just us part. He probably understands. [ hotpotato's advice column | Ask hotpotato A Question ]
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