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kinda confused...a guys advice would be awesome
17/f, this guy i met in school this year texted my friend asking a bunch of questions about me (do i have a boyfriend, what do i like to do...ex) and i thought ok weird i never would think i was his type. So anyways later that week we were assigned a project in school and he picked me to be his partner, at the end of the class he gave me his number (not based on the project just in general gave me his number). So i texted him later that night saying heres my number so he could have it, then he askes me to hang out the next day so i said sure, he ends up getting grounded and we couldnt hang out. Today we talked and he was like sorry blah blah blah and i wasnt mad about it or anything so i let it go, it wasnt a big deal. But today hes not trying to get in contact with me at all, i was just hoping for advice if you think he likes me or its just more of a friend thing...cause im kinda confused. thanks =)
-Emily
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I think there's a strong possibility that he's interested in you, but sometimes life gets in the way and things don't always work out like we want them to. I'm sure being grounded put him in a bad mood, which might have caused his focus to shift for the time being. It's not easy being a teenage guy. In your head you feel like a man, but having to follow your parents' rules only reminds you that you're still just a boy and that can be humiliating and emasculated. He could be embarrassed. Give him some time and see how things go. Remember, guys are natural predators and we like to hunt. As long as you give him something to chase and you let him think that he's closing in on the kill, he's going to remain interested.
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It definitely sounds like he is interested in you, and I doubt that we would've gone through all of that trouble and then stopped being into you that quickly. My guess is that he is probably embarrassed about being grounded. I know I would be, at least I have been when it happened to me! Good luck!
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