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is my bf havin alot of gurl best friends a problem
ok so my boyfriend has alot of gurl bestfriend.so every time i call him he's over one of there houses or outside with them && i know there not doing anything because i know all of the gurls have boyfriends.bt im like well why do u always spend time with them and what not.he also tells all of are relationship business to them and it bothers me like he will tell them what we did he even told them the first time we said i love you and i told him how i was a virgin and he goes and tells them i was like i didnt want you to tell them my business.so do i have a problem or does he need to chill with the telling his friends everything about us??
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hey there,
okay to answer your question no you don't have the problem at all.
you have a right to your privacy,and fair enough your boyfriend has alot of girlfriends your really cool and respectful about that and dont seem to mind as much as a lot of girls would but for him to be telling them every little detail is not fair and slightly uncalled for.
nobody wants there private bussiness shared around like that hes your boyfriend you should feel like you can trust him to keep this information to himself!
have a talk with him about say how you would really prefer him to not tell them stuff like that as it makes you feel uncomfortable and youd rather they not know,its only fair,he might not even realise hes doing this and hopefully he will a apologise for it and be more careful about what he lets slip if he gets all defensive about it then i think you need to rethink this relationship.
I hope I helped and things work out for the best
much <3
Jess 16.f
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He sure does need to chill with private intimate details. you need to look closer at his motives for doing so.
Is he soooo infactuated he can't help but to blab to anyone who'll listen. (Girls love to listen) Or are the chicks getting him to blab all by asking the right questions and putting him on the spot.
Or is he simply bragging?
you'll have to train him to break that habbit.
bottom line:
Your private lives is not an open book.
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