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Me and my best friend becoming bf and gf.


Question Posted Saturday September 26 2009, 2:35 am

Okay so I have this Really sweet, cool, nice awesome, funny guy that i REALLY like. I get the tingles just thinking about him. I really want to go out with him. But if he dosent like me back then I dont want our friendship to be weird and akward. PLZ help me. i have never done this before and i REALLY like him.
Sincerely,
Maddie :) <3


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Memorex answered Monday September 28 2009, 10:39 pm:
Well, depends on how long you've been friends.


My friend and I get along REALLY well, we've been called soulmates, but we've known each other since kindergarten (I'm in 9th grade). I can't feel anything more than friendship for him.

If you've known each other than long, the chances he likes you could be smaller, but they're still there.

Try flirting! Trust me, it works! I tried it for the first time today, and I have a pretty good idea of the guy's feelings for me now--he likes me, but is too stubborn to tell me.

Tell us what his behavior towards you is like, so we can hlep more. =]


I find that the best way to tell a guy you like him is to just... do it. Like jumping into a cold swimming pool, it's easy to wade in a bit, hold your breath, and take the plunge.


Of course, you shouldn't just be talking about videogames then say "I LIKE YOU SO MUCH BE MY BF????"

He'll have a heart attack, poor guy! LOL

I have a trick that I used to use when I was still pretty shy--

ask during a lull in a conversation or something when you two are alone, "Ya know, some of our friends are saying we should go out... I dunno... I mean, do you like me?"

if he says "no" you can easily laugh it off like "Hah, KNEW they were wrong." and make jokes about it. Crisis averted, frienship spared.

but then, if he says "yes"... well... you know what to do there. ;-)

good luck!

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Daintree answered Sunday September 27 2009, 11:02 pm:
The best places to fall in love is the Fair grounds on the rides and a horror flick because it gets the endorphine in the brain active kissing gets them going too. Or... you can just give him a Kiss (not a pash it's too soon) just a long smaker will do then say goodnight and let him think about you all night he'll let you know how he feels soon enough. he may be shy

I don't know how old you are sweetie, I suspect pre-teen or teen You asked me should you let him know how you feel? Unless he's a mind reader you have say whats on your mind. If you can pick up on the body language that should give you hints too.
try holding hands as you walk & talk. But I think a suprise kiss will jolt him into submission Haven't you seen boys on T.V. how they respond to their first kiss they look shocked and they always smile. If you want him go get him. Find out what you want to know it's in his kiss. The world will not fall apart if he's not the one. It happens when you least expect it.

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