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i am a seventeen year old girl, and i have a girlfriend. she's my first girlfriend, and right now i'm not so sure about my sexuality anymore. i thought i was bi; maybe i was just bi curious. anyways i have landed myself in a situation. the thing is, i think i might be straight after all. this whole thing is different for me, and maybe she might not be the girl for me. she's really awesome though, and if i break up with her, i want there to be someone there for her to fall back on. hopefully she and i can remain friends afterwards. i'm not so sure i have the heart to break up with her; i don't want to hurt her. i do love her; just i think it's more in a friends kind of way. i am attracted to girls, but i think a man is more compatable for me. i don't know what i should do, or where i should start.
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I wouldn't get to hasty now ;) hah. I'm sure she is just not the type of girl that you are into. I mean if she's a great girl then i think she should be more of your...best friend! Then your girlfriend! I'm sure you still are Bi, she IS your first girlfriend too so you never know. Try a different girl you find attractive and and see how that works out for you! If you feel uncomfortable around girls when you are going out with them, you might just find them "hot" but you don't like them. Then maybe guys are better for you! Good luck! Ask another Question if you have one! =]
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Start by being sure about yourself and you decision. You don't want waking up in the morning and feeling like you made the wrong choice. If you don't have the wrong choice, then sit her down and explain to her that you don't feel the way you thought you did. That you love her, but not in the way you thought. Friendship. Tell her you clicked as friends not lovers.
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you should explain this to her. just ask her not to get angry about it because your just as confused about the whole thing. tell her that you do love her but not sure if a girlfriend is right for you. try going for a break say because you want to understand who you are.
every break up is hard but itll be harder being in a relationship that your not sure of. explain to her how you feel because itll hurt her more that your not sharing how you feel with her.
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