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My Boyfriend
Okay I'm an 18 male, My boyfriend had recently told me that i make him feel like a nobody, cause Everyone whos anyone fonds over me like i'm celeb! and cause i have friends who are celebs! and talk to them on a daily basis. how do i make him see im just a normal person and i don't like ppl being at my feet 24/7!! I told him that, but he doesn't understand when im with ten million ppl, thats when i get lonely! What should i do?
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He has an inferiority complex. Webster's Dictionary defines it as "an unrealistic feeling of general inadequacy caused by actual or supposed inferiority in one sphere, sometimes marked by aggressive behavior."
He feels inadequate to other men you know and your friends who are well-known people. He's also jealous of the time you spend with them. This is his problem and it's psychological. He sounds like he needs help from a psychologist to deal with it. You can't convince him that you love him and don't think he's a nobody or idiot. This problem he has will always override what the truth is.
You'll have to tell him point blank that you have friends who like you and though they may be famous and fawn over you that's not what you're looking for from them. Tell him you're with him for a reason and that if you didn't like him you would be gone by now.
Tell him it pisses you off greatly to be told you treat him like a nobody when you bend over backwards for him. If that doesn't work tell him to get help for an inferiority complex and that until he does you don't want to be around. He'll forever drive you nuts with this until someone gets him to see reality versus what he perceives is so with your relationship and his place in it and life in general.
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Well, it's a jealousy thing. When these "ten million ppl" are at your feet, tell them that you want to spend some time with your boyfriend so it would be really nice if they leave you alone, just for a little bit. I think that would make any guy or girl feel special. :)
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