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How to stop crushing on my teacher?
For some reason I developed a massive crush on a teacher I had. She was young, attractive and really nice. I can't stop thinking about her, . I keep thinking she hates me or think I'm stupid, even though there's no proof of that, and I keep thinking she'll completely forget me and I made a fool of myself in my class even though I really didn't. The thoughts of her not liking or having a bad impression of me pain me so much,. I also find myself staring at her yearbook picture constantly and I feel miserable and mopey all the time. How do I get rid of this crazy infatuation? .I would never act on the crush don't worry about that. Don't tell me I need to get over it I already know that I just don't know how?
If its sick and wrong I understand but its happened so I just need some tips on how to stop feeling this way
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well if your are like a senior in high school and shes like 30 years old, than thats kind of strange.
but if shes only like 22, than thats reasonable. she might be only 4 years older, or maybe a little more. its nice and unique that you have a crush on your teacher. its very unique.
she might think your stupid because she only sees you as a "student"
when you are not in class, talk to her. try to find out ALOT more about her. and whatever happens, happens.
who knows????? maybe you will end up dating her. WHO KNOWS??? anything can happen my friend.
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love is blind, we cant control it. But somtimes we also cant act on it and thats what hurts the most, time is a great healer... im affraid your going to have to just wait this out untill you get over it naturally. dont drink or do drugs to try and forget, they only enhance the bad emotional rejected feeling you probably have.
keep yourself busy and try to not think of her, throw out / lock away any pictures you may have of her. the less you have of her the less you'll feel for her and then you can start to lead your normall everyday routines and such, but other than what i said theres not alot else i can give you in the way of advice :/ good luck to you
hope i helped a little bit
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There is nothing sick about it. Lots of kids have crushes on their teacher. What's important is that you don't act on these impulses.
There is no way to stop a crush. If you like someone, then you like them. You can't force yourself to quit. Try not to think about her as much though. Throw yourself into something so you won't think about her as much, and try meeting girls your own age. Eventually this crush will pass, they usually always do! :)
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