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embarrassment and i probably ruined it
15/f.
i have a crush on this guy at my school. hes smart cute easy to talk to hot nice athletic funny. the total package i guess you could say.
but the thing is i'm so overly shy i can't talk to him because i don't know what to say. so i had my friend go and say that she was doing a poll for a class and have her find out things about him. (stupid i know) so anyway he found out the truth about the reason why she did this. i don't know how because i didnt tell anyone and he found out that i liked him but he just thinks of me as a friend. which was a relief because i knew he could have said he hated me i was planning on asking him to sadie hawkins and become good friends with him before i ask him but i'm too embarrassed to even say hi to him because of what happened so i feel that its impossible for me to ask him to sadie. and i'm worried he might think of me as a coward or a liar because of the fake interview. did i ruin my chance of being his friend, asking him to sadie hawkins, and possibly having a relationship with him? how can i get over my embarrassment to talk to him and should i confront him about what i had my friend ask him these questions thanks for your time :)
p.s i know you guys probably think i'm an idiot for this but i am so shy it's not even funny please try to understand
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Smile at him in the hall, wink at him, give him a glance, and he will get the hint ;)
Honestly, he probably thinks it is cute that you tried to find out more about him. But in the future, try to ask him in person. I really doubt you ruined your chances. If you explain everything, including that you are shy, he should be fine with it, and he may think its cute that you would try so hard.
Gather all your courage and just talk to him one on one, that way it will be more sincere and you may be more comfortable with no one else around. Then you could ask him if he would like to go with you to the dance. If you want/have to, you could casually talk to him, in front of people.. he will listen and understand if you are honest. He won't hold it against you if he is as nice as you say he is.
No matter what happens, keep the interaction with him going and you will be likely to become good friends :)
No. I do not think you are an idiot. You are just love struck. Have you ever heard the saying 'people do crazy things when they are in love?' it is SO true ;)
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Try to make a joke out of it...like come up with a clever line to say to him as to why she did that for you..rather yet text him. Or if you want to confront him in person just make sure he's alone. You might still be able to pull off the 'going to the sadie dance ' with him..but you gotta come clean as to why you had your friend ask. I mean I'm sure he'd like to hear from you that you like him then someone else, even if he doesn't feel the same. So try to do that and if he shoots you down - well then you gotta move on.
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