|
ms.confused.still.
I just don't get it. There are a lot of guys who really try to win my heart but I always fall for the wrong guy. One thing i hate about myself is im a hard-to-get type but when i fall, i really fall so hard that i'll go out of my way just to make that person feel so special.
Girls always say that my future boyfriend will be the luckiest but i guess i always attract the wrong guy.
They always let go of me that easily.
(This guy) texted me that he still loves me no matter what even if i left him already. But i just can't move on....
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
I am the same exact way ... always falling for the wrong guys.
Until ... I got with my boyfriend :] hahaa. I don't know like, over the years [im 16 by the way, very close to 17] you just start to see which guys are the bad ones and which are the good. I know every girl wants the "bad boy" yuh know, the whole ... thrilling turn him good thing, but that never works, and we always end up getting hurt. It sucks. But it's the truth. I don't know about you, but I can weed out the good ones and the bad ones now. It's the little things like, are they wanting a serious relationship or just a "fling" and the way they talk says alot about them too.
I'm also the kind of hard-to-get type. what girl isn't ? I mean, everyone has it in them, it just comes out more in some than others. yuh know ? And also, when I fall, I fall hard and I will also go out of my way to make the person I fell/am falling for feel really special. It's not a bad thing, in my opinion, but when it comes down to it, you can't think about the other person, you have to think about YOU. I learned that the hard way. Because if you're not happy then everything will go downhill. You need to make yourself happy and focus on yourself befroe you focus on the guy.
And YEAH the guy you get is gonna be lucky, because I mean, you sound like a great person ! and yeah, they let go of you that easily because they know they can. Because they aren't the right guys. I have known my boyfriend for 12 years. But we have been through alot. I thought he was a bad guy, but he's not. at all. You really learn who is and who isn't. It's not being sterotypical, its being efficient :]
and if you can't move on, maybe you shouldn't ? But only you can decide that. Is it worth it to stay in your mind ? Because this is all up to you. Like, yeah, maybe he's just telling you what you want to hear, but then again, maybe he's actually being sincere and means it. You need to ask questions and communicate or you'll always end up getting hurt. and quick tip:
never jump into a relationship with a person you barely know or only know somewhat because then you don't know who they REALLY are until it's too late.
good luck ! you need to keep me posted :] and if you have any other problems or things you just want to talk about or vent about, feel free to inbox me :] im always here for youu. xxo.
]
More Questions: |