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I love Him and It sucks!!! I think Im depressed?!
I love him sooooooooooooo much! I dont want to! I want to forget he exists. I know if there was a way I could see him more we could be together because the times I spend with him are INCREDIBLE! The thing is I never get to see or talk to him barely ever! I love a guy I know I could never be with and it hurts not only mentally but physically! I sit at home and do nothing but sleep, eat, watch tv., and sit on the computer! I turn down all offers to hang out with anyone but him. I feel like if I cant have him I will eventually die. I used to dream about him now I have nightmares. I used to smile when I thought about him now I cry. Its so hard wanting something so bad when you know you will never have it. Is there anything I can do?
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Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
i know it's lame but seriously, the only thing that is eternal is energy. *dang my physics class*
the real point is, even people who have been in love for 40 years can get over each other after time. it's hard to believe when your love for the guy is overwhelming (i know the feeling), but just be positive that you'll get over it somehow.
1) if you're positive there's absolutely no way you can get him (aka he's brad pitt), just believe that you'll overcome that feeling one day. trust me, you'll forget about him soon enough.
2) if you think there's even a slight chance of you getting him, GO FOR IT! if it goes well, good for you. if not, try step 1).
but you'll be fine. trust me. good luck! :)
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Ok, it sounds like you really care for this person, I can relate to the feeling of just wanting to hang out with just one a special person, but in my opinion it sounds like you should check out doing other things on the side like maybe check out a local dance class or maybe karate or something like that. ^^ As far as how much you see him and how that effects you is totally up to you. It really just depends on how often to. I'd definetly try to keep busy staying on the computer or watching TV doesn't really get you anywhere.
Hope this helps! :)
Good luck
Plutotdistraite
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Well why can't you have him? Why can't you talk?
I think you should stop moping around and take up your friends offers to hang out.. take him off your mind listen to up beat music. at least you two are friends right? and trust me if god wanted you to be together he would make it possible. and im just just saying that. im not a whole church person its just what i believe.. i went through depression over a boy before its easier to just forget him and get out there with your friends.
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First of all, I would want to know the reason as of why you can't see or barely talk to the guy. You really didn't give to many indept details about the matter. So I really can't give yo the best advice concerning that. Second of all something bothers me about some things you have written. I don't knowfor sure your age but, it seems as if you put this guy in te center of your world. It not first before anything or anybody. I don't know if you have selfesteem issues and some other self issues but, the way you're talking isn't healty. And being clingy and needed ia complete turn off to any guy and you will only kill the relationship further. But if theres really no way that you can see or be with the guy than maybe you need to learn t move on with your life. No MAnN should ever get you to the point where you feel depressed. And you have to realize if it was meant to be you guys would be togeather but if its not, you just going to have to suck it up and move on with your life. We as females have to learn how to become happy by ourselfs, in order to prosper in any present or future relationships. God is suppose to be first, and than yourself. So you need to understand it, stop eating all day and being on the computer, enjoy your life and be appreciative of the face you're here.
A while ago I broke up with my boyfriend and I truly fellt life was over for me.I loved him more than life, and like you I nade a drastic mistake of making a man my all. But you kno what I had to get over it. And for a year and a half I've been single. And you know what I'm happy ALONE... The best of luck to you... And if you ever need to talk please don't hesitat leaving a message in my inbox...
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