Question Posted Tuesday September 1 2009, 11:47 pm
How can one advance and become independent when one feels but very sad and afraid?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Miscellaneous category? Maybe give some free advice about: Spirituality? xMikex answered Thursday September 3 2009, 6:12 pm: You need to more than anything be comfortable with yourself. Have a look at this link ([Link](Mouse over link to see full location)). This wel perhaps make you feel less afraid because you'll know who you are and what you could potentially achieve. As much of an contradiction as it sounds the best way to be less afraid and more independent is to get out of you're safety net, do things you wouldn't usually do, and most importantly don't be downhearted if they don't work out how you planned because thats when you'll really start to make progress. If you don't fear failure, then you'll definately become more independent.
I know this is a very short answer but I genuinely think this is at least the basic idea you need to follow in order to change such things. If you want to provide more information then just do so in your response and i will happily expand my response with relevance to that =)
Sweet_LiL_Angel answered Wednesday September 2 2009, 12:48 pm: think confident.
prepare your self to be independent.
fincailly. bank account.
remember to pay bills, food, important stuff gas in a car before spending money on your self.
there is no reason to feel sad or afrid. I personally have never lived alone. but i would like to. will never have that chance since i have young children.it gives you your space. i am sure you have friends that you can talk to and family. growing up is great. [ Sweet_LiL_Angel's advice column | Ask Sweet_LiL_Angel A Question ]
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