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Gay
Hi 15yr old guy im gay and ive been with my bf over 10 months we really love each other and we were making out in his room his mum came early and we almost got caught we havent told anybody about us were a bit nervous my parents are religious and im not sure how to talk to them not sure how they will react my bf seems to think we should tell our parents soon but i want to wait awhile what do you think?
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hey there,
sorry for the delay in my response im back to school now unfortunately :( so I havnt had the time to reply.
Anywho,
this is a very tough situation and its a problem nearly all gay people have to face sooner or later is coming out to there parents. of course at first they will be a little shocked but in time they will come around to accept it.
because in this case they are religous it makes things extremly harder has they have such strong views and its hard to face and come around to new ideas and such.
but they are your parents and at the end of the day they love you,and they should be happy for and respect you.
explain to them its NOT wrong and its who you are,you cant deny that by being something your not tell them you hope they can be happy for you but your not going to change yourself.
im not going to lie they are probably going to be against it at first but honestly they will come around.
as for waiting a while its really up to you,don't let your bf pressure you if he wants to tell his parents now then thats up to him it doesnt mean you have to tell yours,tell them when you feel the time is right but don't leave it too much longer because if they find out elsewhere it will just make it harder.
youl feel much more comfortable once its off your chest,I hope things go well and your parents take it ok
best of luck hope I helped!
any more questions please inbox me again :)
Much <3
Jess 16 F
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