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so there is this boy in the year above me in my school and i like really really like i might even love him i spmetimes speek to him on msn and ask the usual like how are you an stuff but as soon as i ask him wot has he been doin or something like that he nevr ansers anymore than that he is fine he knows i like him and the other day he added me on facebook as the 5th person the added wich i was made up about an now i dont no wot to do cause he wont say anymore on msn but i dont wont to keep annoying him because he might get abit pissed off with me wot should i say to him </3
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Love is a very powerful word hunn. just remember that. when you are definetly in love with someone it won't be a "maybe" feeling or an "i might love him" kinda thing, it will be a definite feeling. trust me. so I think you just really like him at the moment. It's important to realize the difference right now because it will help you decipher how he feels and why he hardly talks to you on msn.
With that said, he could be saying very little for multiple reasons...
1. he might be bored and questions like that [simple ones/not creative] dont really interest him.
2. he may not like you the way you like him and doesn't want to lead you on.
3. he's not a big talker. [i know my boyfriend is like that, and as frustrating as it is, i deal]
4. he might be pretty busy or stressed latley, so he doesnt have time to talk. sometimes when people have alot on their mind, they keep to themselves.
okay so now that we got down some of the possibilities, here's what you should do...
- talk to him in a more flirtatious way. instead of saying "hey whats up" be like .. "hey good lookin, whats cookin ? ;]" and then in reply to whatever he says be like, "did you like my pick up line? haha" or something like that instead of the immediate, "how are you?" 'cause let's face it, that gets really old really fasst.
- he won't be annoyed by you, if you dont act clingy. like, okay. if he doesnt act like he wants to talk to you, say something like, "alright, i just wanted to stop by and say hey, but i'll catch yuh later :]" and then talk to him in like a day or 2 on msn. he'll think you're playing hard to get and have better things to do, and he'll want you even more.
The key is confidence, like the advice giver below me had said. If you don't have confidence, the guy won't be intrigued by you. so you need to hold your head up high and be as straight forward as possible and i promise, if you try hard enough, in the end, you'll get what you want. but these things take time. get to know him, let him get to know you. and then take it from there.
good luck ! hope i helped ! if you need anything else, feel free to inbox me :] xxo.
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You need to be more original. The "what's up? How are you?" Questions are pretty played out, and let's face it, EVERYONE says asks them. You need something that stands out, that makes him want to have a conversation with you. If you insist on talking to him on MSN then start off by saying "so that jacket you were wearing today was really hott." or something along the lines of that. Guys love a girl with confidence in herself. If he still doesn't talk with you (which would be hard to believe) then play some hard ball with him. Start ignoring HIM and acting like your life couldn't be any better. Pretty soon he will take notice and he'll be the one messaging you. Guys like to feel that they have the upper hand. Show him your mature, and most of all different. Good luck sweetie, hope I helped!
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