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i feel..
like my friend gets all the guys.
i introduced her to a couple of my guy friends who i liked and i told her, and now they like her.
all the guys i know have had a crush on her sometime.
it makes me really depressed cuz shes my best friend, and gets everyone.
im never gunna find anyone who likes me!
ugh im so confused, i hate it.
please help.
thanks
maybe its cuz im not a very confident person. but i dont know.
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heyy, so i understand what your going through to a certain level. i have a cousin who is attractive and when i hang out with her, all eyes are on her ALL THE TIME! so i know how you feel, but this is what you have to understand, you are who are..and that is what is important. if a guy really likes you, then no friend, no matter how attractive should get in the way of the way he feels for you. im not the most confident person in the world, but im getting better...realize that you need to like yourself before anyone could like you. i havent seen you but i bet there is something about you that is beautiful, because we all possess some sort of beauty. there is a saying that says when a girl is confident-thats when she is sexy. so dont hold back. lift your head up high and walk, let people think what they want to think. YOU ARE YOU..AND THAT IS BEAUTIFUL.
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I know what you mean. Not feeling like your as pretty or cool as your friends. It doesn't help that your friends are really outgoing and flirty and you're not. Thats SO me. But last year a guy friend asked me out out of NOWHERE and I was so surprised. I mean we ended up breaking up buts thats just because he wasnt a good boyfriend. But seriously, just keep your eyes open and keep a close relationship with your guy friends, and who knows one might surprise you. And believe in yourself. And also dont feel depressed because you dont have a boyfriend. its okay and not a big deal. and chances are someone does like you and there just not telling you just yet. good luck
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I have a pickle sticker!
Anyway.. My friend acts that way too. Almost everyone has a friend like that. Or feels that way some how. My friend doesn't think she can get guys yet a lot like her, and it's just something that you have to accept sometimes. Because i'm sure that there are other guys that may like you. There's someone out there for everyone, you're only 14, someone will be there for you eventually :)
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