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he wants to know me.
19, female.
my best guy friend always tells me that i never tell him anything. and that he feels like he doesn't even know me anymore. but i mean what am i suppose to do, randomly just say everything about me and everything that i'm thinking and everything i've been through?
i wish i could tell him....
that i've been hurt so many times in the past.
that my heart wants to trust him, but my mind tells me not to.
that i'm rarely happy, and that i just fake it.
that i have an anxiety disorder and am taking medication.
that i can't find a boy, nobodys ever good enough for me.
that i'm insecure.
that i'm jealous when he gets close to another girl.
that i put everyone before myself, which has ruined me.
that i've been used by my friends, and when they screw me over and run back to me i'm always there with open arms..
that i can't trust anyone, yet i'm so vulnerable to everything.
that everytime i'm with him, i can't stop smiling.
that i love him, that i'm in love with our friendship.
that i'm drifting away from my family.
theres just so many things i can tell him. how do i though? honestly...
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It seems like you really trust this guy, and this guy cares about you and notices that something is bothering you and you aren't telling him. Just tell him how you feel and what you're going through-Sit down with him and let him know that it's hard for you open up and talk about this stuff and thats why you havent, I think he'll appreciate you opening up to him, and may even be able to help you, and who knows-he may have feelings for you too :0) You'll feel better getting it all out and having someone to talk too. Good luck!
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Wow! It seems you have a lot going on inside. And to be honest wit you, I can relate to you on some things. I've also been misused and treatly unfairly in relationships and friends as well. I've been vulnerble, and I've surely let others take advantage of me. And to this day I'm still dealing and coping with certain issues. But you know what help me threw alot was, the support of true friends and a great family. Maybe your friend can help you if you only open up to him. And if he is a true friend he wouldn't think any less of you, if you tell him whats going on. And maybe by opening up to him, it could help you in a way. It's always good to vent. And I think you have someone to vent to so do it. Get him face to face and tell him what's going on with you. And you might be suprize at the successful therapy it is to confide in a close friend. Best of luck.
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It sounds like your best guy friend cares about you very much. Its possible he wants you to open up to him so that you and him can create a stronger connection between each other. I think that you need to start a conversation with him about the both of you. First take the time to learn a little more about him. Ask him questions about himself that you might be curious about. After asking him a few questions he will probable ask you a few things, this should make it easier for you to tell him some of the things that are on your mind.
I hope this helps and I wish you luck
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