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welll.
i dont really know how to explain myself.
i feel im rude to people.
when im not trying to be,
it could be cause im jsut having a crappy day, but its hurting other peoples feelings.
im very confused at this whole situation and the rest of my life.
please help.
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As someone older than most of the advisor my answers may be somewhat different than those received and those you will receive.
At your age being rude could be just the result of going through puberty, a hormonal thing. You may be thinking wait a minute I’ve already gone through puberty and gotten my period so this can’t be right.
Your body goes through puberty in stages sort of. You may have gotten your period but your body is still adjusting to the hormonal changes. These changes can cause you to be rude or bitchy as some what put it. The fact that you have noticed this is a good thing.
What to do about it: If this continues much longer I would suggest talking to a GYN or your family doctor about this. It is possible there are some medications that will help you with the hormonal changes.
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The only real solution to this problem is to simply think before you speak. If your first instinct is to give a rude answer to someone's question, stop for a minute and see how you can change the negative words to positive words. You aren't going to become Miss Daisy Sunshine overnight. It's going to take a bit of getting used to.
Another idea is everytime you hurt someone's feelings, put a dollar in a jar. You'll start losing so much money that you'll want to be nice.
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Sometimes things happen, if you find yourself in a situation where you feel like you were rude, tell the person you were rude too that your sorry because your having a bad day. It happens to the best of us, dont worry. :-)
Good luck!
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