ok, this whole entire year, like from the beginning of last school year until now, i feel like i've been in this daze. i mean, i'm not depressed or anything, it's not like i hate my life. but, like in school everyone would always be like what's wrong? or you look depressed. are you depressed? and i'm like no.. i'm fine. like i would hear that literally every day. it got really annoying. i mean when i was at the carnival a week or so ago, i walked right in the middle of a couple holding hands, i didn't even realize where i was going or anything..i've always been a little bit of a day dreamer, but i pay attention in school a lot more then i used to. i don't have adhd, or add whatever. i got tested for it when i was little, and i don't have it. i haven't really done much this summer either, like i hang out with people, but i don't call them, they call me, and i don't really text anyone or anything, inless they do it to me, & all i've done this summer is take walks by myself in the park, swim, & a few parties. but besides that stuff, i just lay around kind of. like and stare at the ceiling. i don't know. :( is there something wrong with me?
Do you keep a journal? I know you might not think it will help, but I started keeping one at the beginning of this summer and it has really helped me. You can write anything at all, and you don't have to show it to ANYONE. So if I wanted to rant about my family, or gush about my boyfriend, I could do it. I really think you should try it, cause it really helped me get out of this funk.
As of late, though, I've been feeling better. Call up your friends (don't wait for them to call you) and go do something really fun. Go to the beach or a water park or a concert or shopping, something, anything! Enjoy what you have left of summer :)
If you want more advice and/or just want to chat sometime, send something to my inbox :)
shelbz7077 answered Thursday August 6 2009, 5:30 pm: If there is something that is troubling you maybe you should talk about it or try solving it. If not and you are just in some random funk then maybe you should have some friends over or something. Start hanging out with people and have a good time. You should enjoy yourself. Maybe you could throw your own party? I hope this helps. [ shelbz7077's advice column | Ask shelbz7077 A Question ]
05natalie05 answered Thursday August 6 2009, 10:08 am: Is something on your mind? Maybe there is something bugging you and you are consantly thinking about it, and sometimes you might not even notice you're doing it.
When you snap out of a daze, think about what you were just thinking about or what was just destracting you. This might help.
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