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my friend doesn't know how to say no.
17/f, my best friend is kind of a slut. like last year, she was all prude & stuff, and if i ever mentioned what i did, she would be like.. "That's so bad, you're going to burn in hell!" & i'd just kind of laugh, and it was whatever. well anyway, all of a sudden this year, she just turned kind of slutty. like.. her & this boy have been on and off dating since last year. they are really close, and he is the sweetest boy ever. well, anyway, she went and she cheated on him & fooled around with this other random guy, who she didn't really know, & they ended up dating, and she dated the really nice sweet boy too. well, i told her how she really shouldn't do that, and all her friends were pissed too, because they are good friends with him as well, well, finally one girl told the boy about it. & he forgave her.. well, she went on vacation, and she cheated on him with like these 25-30 year old guys. & she did all this stuff with them. & wherever i go with her, she has to flirt with every guy we come in contact with. it's not fair to the boy she has been serious with. i try to say little things to her like.. "well, what about james, don't you like him? why do you keep doing this stuff?" & she'll be like "i don't know" & she gets jealous when he hangs out with other girls, and hes only hanging out with them, because he wants help buying her stuff! & i want to try to like tell her to stop, because it is wrong. but i don't want to be like "you're a slut, stop it." & it just gets really annoying, because she always tell me how i'm bad because i smoke & drink! but at least i don't do what she does. what can i say to her? like shes a good friend of mine, and i don't want her to get herpes or something.. :/
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Well obviously telling her to stop is not working. I agree.. you should tell her boyfriend what's been going on. It doesn't seem like she cares about him at all if she is treating him like that. He doesn't deserve that. Maybe after he breaks up with her she'll change.. but it seems like she won't. Maybe you just do need to come out and tell her that she is being too loose. She needs to understand that she is hurting people and that I bet people are also hurting her. If she really was a good girl before this year it's probably emotionally hurting her. I hope this helps.
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Good friend ? really she tells you how bad you are but doesn't speak about her self yeah "good friend" ? If i were you i'd tell that boy he shouldn't be wasting his time on her nor his money ? pretty selfish imagin you were that boy how would you like it ? besides even if you were too loose her you wouldn't be loosing anything she'd be loosing you and besides what comes around goes around if you want,you can also warn her that you're gonna tell him or she does it ! don't let her get her way all the time.
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