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She is soooooooo dumb..
My friend, Her name is Kelsey.
She is dating this guy who I can't stand at all. Now, A few months or so ago there was this huge arguement between me and my best friend they broke up and Tim told her that I said she cheated on him..wtf? Anyway, A week later Kelsey and Tim got back together and she kept it a secret from me the entire time and our friendshp started going downhill a little bit when I told her I didn't say nothing. Not only did she avoid the problem and not talk to me but our friendship is STILL not the same. She will go awhile without talking to me then call me wanting to hang out and spend the night at my house...not only that but I live in apartment and I have rules to keep the television down after 10pm..she doesn't listen I've talked to her about this on several occasions. I'm fed up, She never listens to me at all and she talks over me.
What should I do
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I agree with the other 2 columnists. This girl is:
A. choosing a boy over you.
B. not listening when you talk to her about it.
C. totally disrespecting you.
D. all of the above.
The correct answer is D, and she's totally not worth your time. I think you should go out and find some new people to hang out with, who won't chose a guy over you, or not listen to you when you say something important like "I have rules where I live, don't break them."
-Laura (17-f)
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As cruel as it sounds,let her go.If she doesn't realize that Tim is bad for her you can't help her.And there is something we all agree on-there is no friendship without respect.If she doesn't respect you,and even worse,if it's becausse of a guy,then she doesn't deserve to be called your friend.First rule of friendship-friends don't keep secrets from each other.Basically,just let her be...she'll realise what she had when she loses it.I mean,what a good friend she had when she loses you.There's no point in trying to reason with her since she's so stubborn.Anyway,I hope that all this will be better soon.
best wishes,
solariagirl4
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You can't have a friendship without respect and obviously she doesn't respect you. You have to put your foot down. Eventually she will realize that you were always there for her and this Tim guy is not. She'll start to find out about more and more of his lies and get tired of him on her own. In the mean time take a break from her and go and hang out with other friends and do fun things. Let her she you really don't depend on her friendship. Like they say "People don't know what they have until it's gone." Friends sometimes need to know that there is a line they just can't cross. Don't let her take advantage of your kindness and patience! Hope I helped.
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