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I'm just so confused anymore..
Okay, this is probably going to be long but bare with me..
So I have this guy who I've been dating for 3 years now. I absouletly love him to death. Shit was perfect the first year, but like most relationships.. that's normal. Now it just sucks so bad. He's sorta a drug addict, no he is a drug addict & i'm constantly just pushing it aside. He wasn't like this when we started dating. Well he got me into the shit too, which sucks but oh well. It ruins us though! We're constantly fighting about money, and blah blah blah. He's not the same and I can't stand it. But since I love him, I can't just say goodbye..
He's so protective & just annoying. I have this friend who I've been texting about stupid stuff. It means nothing at all! Well, the only time I leave my phone alone he goes thru my texts & reads them. Flips the hell out, accuses me of cheating & going all the way with this kid.. even though NOTHING about that was even in my inbox/outbox. I'd never cheat on him. He stormed out of my house, and said we're "done forever." because apparently he doesn't trust me? It's really stupid. I'm trying to be strong about this because I'm done sucking up to his ass. That's obviously what he wants. He sends mean texts saying "slut, how could you." when I guarantee he knows I wouldn't do that. But then, he'll send texts like .. "I love you always and forever, sorry it had to end this way. I can't believe you broke my heart." Like I didn't realize he was this insecure because I texted someone!
So - just this Saturday I went to a wedding and met someone totaly cute. He was so into me & we've been texting since.. Me and the other one, haven't really talked a lot in the past two days. And now I realized the kid who I was friends with and texted is kinda into me too. I'm just not quite sure what to do. Should I still try and be with the one I love? or just date & have fun? Ah, sorry this is ridculously long & stuff but I'm so confused anymore.. Please help. :(
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Well love hurts some times bt if he's flipping out then u shouldn't be with him. A lot of girls go back and some times it works bt most of the time it dosent. U say he's on drugs well you shouldn't go bk 2 him he could seriously hurt you life your life and have fun I would try the other guy I hope evry thing wrks out for the best ;)
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Sometimes people fall out of love, Honestly when you put two people who have a drug problem together eventually it is not a relationship anymore it becomes all about the drugs and the money and it sounds like that is what happened between you and your boyfriend. The guy is paranoid, Therefore he accuses you of fooling around with other people. Hell, If you had to ask us what you should do, Then obviously the relationship you've been in isn't working out..I would go out and have fun I'm guessing you are young? Hey you get one life and one life only and we don't stay young forever so the hell with it go out and meet other people. If he truely loved you in the first place he would of known to stop the drugs and stop assuming stuff about you.
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