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holiday guy :)
ok so i went on holiday to the beach and meet this guy from another country, we hang out and meet everyday that i was there (5 days) he was going to stay longer , anyway we kissed and more and he said he really wanted to hook up with me , but i said i wouldnt and he was fine with it and stay with me late all night everyday hanging at the beach and just talkin having a good time, kissing and stuff etc anyway after that he asked for my phone and email and he gave me his, anyway i didnt write back or anything and for the next week after i left the place (like right the next day i left where we met ) he was callin me everyday and textin for the whole week while he was there ( it seemed stranged to me cause he was at a beach where he went clubbing everyday and could easily hook up with anyone else), eventhough we know the chances of meetin again are VERY slim if not impossible, anyway so he added me and we've been talking ever since he got back to his country we talk almost everyday for 3 to 4 hours on aim, anyway i found that through one of my friends that was there with me on holiday that this guy has a gf in his country i never asked him but yea i remember his brother sayin he has a gf so thats what i thought and according to me hes been with this girl for about 2 years , also he lives in a small town so probably thats when i though ok maybe he just didnt care cmuch ause maybe hes not into her that much anymore also his town is so small hes probably with her cause hes used to and stuff (cause i know they have the same friends hang with the same peopel)...anyway my question is ..why do you think he asked for my number and email and kept calling me and is still texting me at least once every 2 days and we takl everyday , at first i though ok maybe he did said at the begining id like to stay in touch with you because he wanted me to sleep with him..but that was even after i said i wouldnt, and it was already my last night at the city?....i mean whats the point? at first he was like give me your number and we were at the club and i asked why? you're not even going to call hahaha ..and he was like i swear i will please give it to me to,so he manage to find a pen at the club haha and wrote my number in a very little paper and kept it, and he was like "actually i feel kinda stupid because i know you probably wont keep in touch with me even if i do"......what do you think?
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I think you should figure out what's going on with his girlfriend back home before you pursue a long-distance relationship (if that's what you're going for). Ask him first if he does have a girlfriend back home. If he denies it, let him know that your friend had found out on holiday that he did have a girlfriend and that you were just wondering if it was the truth or not.
If he does have a girlfriend, it's best to stop before you get your feelings involved any more. You'll just be setting yourself up to get hurt. If a guy would cheat on someone he's been dating for two years, what would stop him from cheating on you (a new girl)?
He should have told you that he has a girlfriend back home (if he does). And he definitely shouldn't have tried to hook up with you and kissed you if he does have someone back home.
The only reason I can think of that he would do this is that he wants to have his cake and eat it too. He might have met you and liked you because he was out of his normal small town environment. You have no idea if he will go home and be a good boyfriend to his girlfriend.
Either way, don't let yourself be dragged around like that. He needs to choose to either date his local girlfriend or date you long distance. You need to set things straight with him and let him make his decision.
Good luck,
Darby(:
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