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He lied, stop talking to him, or confront him?
I'm a fourteen year old girl with a rather large problem. I met this sixteen year old guy at one of my softball games. We exchanged numbers and what not, and talked non stop for the first week. I opened up to him about my past which isn't often that I do that. I told him trust was everything to me. Well things got serious, and it seemed like everything was perfect. Until he went back up north. He texted me and told me we couldn't talk anymore and that was it. His younger brother ended up texting me and telling me he had a girlfriend and thats why he said we had to stop talking. So three days later, he randomly texted me and said he wanted to talk so I listened. He basically just apoligized for lying, and said he still wanted to be friends. With my hurt feelings, I said sure and asked why he lied to me. He told me I changed his feelings about everything and that he would break up with her. A week has gone by, and nothing. i don't want to be pushy but I'm getting sick of this. Should I confront him about it? Or just stop talking to him, because after all he did lie. I need help!
-Volleygurl21
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i think you should forgive him. obviously he feels bad about it. people mess up so you should always forgive people. some of the best people in the world can do hurtful things but you just got to know when to forgive them. =)
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So it sounds like before his trip up north your were pretty connected! So I say confront him. Ask him whats up and if he has broken up with his girl friend. Then if he has tell him you want to put all this crap behind you about his ex. and get back to what happened before his trip, and from now on be honest about big things your relationship, such as girl friends, wives, etc. you know.
If he hasn't say he is being a jerk, and your not over him. But you will be and you will move on. Tell him anything that was going on between you was over. And that when he descides to be truth full to call you. Tell then siyanara.
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Ok first off if he lied and told you that I say confront him and then find out everything about it then make your final decision just make sure he's not keeping u a secret from another girl and he isn't keeping that from u
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if i were you, i would only wait maybe a few more days after that, if he really did like you and ment what he said he WOULD have broken up with his girlfriend buy now, so chances are he was just trying to make you happy
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