I'm 18 and I really like my guy friend we've been friends since 10th grade and he asked me out one day then by a note and I never replied because I didnt' really know what to do and I still like him but when i send him e-mails over myspace he hardly ever responds and when he does it's really short. i feel like he's the only guy i could be with because he's so great but i dont know what to do because i don't know if he's mad at me or something he's just the greatest guy that i have ever met. please help me on what to do. thanks
Work somthing out! Because loosing a friend is loosing alot, I know. I was friends with a girl for 6 years, and then she went out with my boy friend, and even though I know it was wrong I still miss her!!!
jm93 answered Thursday July 30 2009, 1:29 pm: Tell him you like him! I mean, you should've answered him..and it is possible he's mad that you didn't, but I'm sure if you tell him how you feel there's a possibility he'll still want to be with you. Just tell him how you feel about him, and you should apologize for not answering. Tell him you weren't sure what to do..so you decided not to answer, but that you still like him a lot.
He should understand if he really does like you. He probably doesn't respond because he's either not sure what to say, doesn't feel like talking, is mad at you (as i said before), or is just plain busy and doesn't have time. All guy's are like that so don't take it personally if he doesn't answer sometimes, or if he just say's something that's really short. Oh, and make sure to add this if you'd like. "he's the only guy i could be with because he's so great but i dont know what to do because i don't know if he's mad at me or something he's just the greatest guy that i have ever met" that will partially explain how you feel about him.
Lianna25 answered Thursday July 30 2009, 11:34 am: you should of reply to the note..you got to take advantage of a good opportunity like this. he can probably be a lil mad becoz you never gave him an answer. He is now assuming that u dont like him. You need to now have a talk with him and tell him how you feel about him, and work things out from there. tell him before its too late. [ Lianna25's advice column | Ask Lianna25 A Question ]
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