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Question Posted Thursday July 30 2009, 1:51 am

ok so i live in california. and im going to be a junior. i moved here when i was in the 4th grade.i have a boyfriend weve been together for a lil over 7 months. we broke up for less then a month then got bak 2gether between our 4th and 5th month. well we got back together and were doing awesome! i have him and my best friend lets call her ashley.and weve been friends since i moved to cali...my dad is saying now he wants us to move to texas with him again us meaning my mom and 2 brothers. well i want to move. but i dont want to leave my boyfriend i seriously love him more than anything in the world. and i dont want to lose ashley eithr. they are my 2 reasons for wanting to stay...what do you guys think i should do? move backto texas and leave my lie behind. my life (my best friend and boyfriend) or should i try to stay in california. i also really wanted to go 2 UCLA and im the closes to LA as ill get... please help me... thanks

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jm93 answered Thursday July 30 2009, 12:52 pm:
Well, it all depends on the reason for your dad wanting to move. If he wants to move because of a job..then you may have no choice but to move. If it does happen that you have to move..there are so many things you can do..long distance relationship, visiting eachother, and you can even go to CA for college and be with him their, you don't have to stay in Texas for college. If your dad wants to move for no reason at all..you may have a shot at actually staying. Tell your parents how you feel. Tell them you don't want to leave your boyfriend because you love him, and you don't want to leave your best friend either. Bring up the fact you want to go to UCLA. I'm not saying they'll decide not to move..but it's good you let them know this. Especially if you're interested in the college in CA..paren't usually love anything that has to do with education. But, all this may influence their decision. So, give it a try :).

Good luck!

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