So I love this guy my parents don't like so I have to sneak out at night to see him. But my mom approves of my ex and i still have feelings for him but I'm now only his friend and we occasionally talk on the phone my boyfriend (they guy my parents don't approve of) don't like this. Wel when I was dating my ex I had sex with my new boyfriend and when I was dating my new boyfriend my ex fingered me. Well now my new bf is not talking to me and hes pissed at me and he won't talk to me at all. I have no clue what to do or say to him please help hes coming over tonight and thursday night because him and my 14 yr sister are really good friends and he promised her they'd hang out when he had a day off and I want to talk to him and have my sis talk to him but I don't know what say please help me.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Families? ohitscassidy answered Thursday July 30 2009, 11:44 pm: well, cheating doesn't get anywhere your boyfriend does have the right to get mad, but i mean if you guys are still dating then why wouldn't he talk to you if he was coming over? Try talking to him , make the first move and break the ice.. tell him your truly sorry, if you are.. and try to go from there you might have to just let him cool off for awhile, i could have been pretty shocking new to him.
jm93 answered Thursday July 30 2009, 12:44 pm: I understand your parents like your ex better..and you may still like your ex, but you even said you love the new boyfriend. Well, first of all, you should'nt have let your ex do that..it would make any new boyfriend uncomfortable, and not trust you anymore. He probably feel's as if you have no interest in being his girlfriend. What you need to do when he comes over is tell him how you really feel. Sit him down and make sure he know's how sorry you are for letting this happen. Ask him for another chance. And, make sure you never let this happen again! If he does love/like you..he'll give you another one. You're also going to have to work on getting his trust back if he does forgive you. It's going to take a while though. Work it out!
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