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me and my moms problems
my name i desi and i am 16 and i live with my mom but i want to move with my boyfriend we been together for a year and 5 mths and i ask my mom all the time if i can move with him. i dont go to school im getting my ged and i turn 17 on feb. 2 and my mom wants to send me off because i stay at my boyfriends house all of the time and i never want to go home because i have an aunt that lives with us an she gets drunk all of the time and my mom makes me put up with it what can i do
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Hey there,
Okay well its not fair for you to put up with your aunts drunken habbits.
your mom shouldnt put up with it either not in her house.
sit your mom down and explain how you don't know how much more of it you can take and you shouldnt be expected to live with that your moms probably just trying to look out for you and is worried about you moving in with your bf,but what she doesnt realise is being at home in this situation isnt doing you much good either.
tell your mom to either get your aunt to straighten up and stop drinking or else move out of the house,or else you will end up at your boyfriends house full time.
be mature about it let her no your serious and concerned and are not rebelling as such.
are you 100% sure you are ready to go with your bf though?if so then do this.
but if not its an entirely different story. make sure your not just doing it to run away from your moms and auntys problems,thats not going to turn out good in the end running from the situations only makes them worse deal with them head on,call a social worker about your aunty if things get so bad are your mom won't see reason.
your only 16 you should not have to deal with this.
ask for some outside help if things dont get better,theese people are there for it.
hope I helped
and things get better,please feel free to inbox me again if youve any more questions or I misunterstood any aspect of this =)
Much <3
Jess
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