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breakup? :(
15/f -i have a boyfriend of 11 months i love him so much but we fight nonstop. some friends ask how i put up with it n my only reason is that i love him. i really dont ever wana loose him but im starting to question a breakup what should i do, if we did breakup itd hurt us both so much but the fightings bringing me back to insanity and i start hallucinating again. but we also have alot of magical moments where we are on top of the world n i cant imagine anything better and were so deep in love were talking about when we have kids and our future. i love him so much but i cant handle the fighting anymore, what shud i do?
i also just started likeing a friend, and i feel so bad to like someone else, but does that mean me n my boyfriend are drifting? my boyfriend makes me cry atleast daily from the fights because he is very insecure n i try my hardest to help him, hes doing bad in school and he doesnt workout or do any kind of sports but is like pro guitarist. my dream guy is a guitarist, in great shape, secure in anything, smart and he is hott. and the guy i like has all of that plus hes 18. i designed his tattoo n he got it n shows me often as he flexs his muscles n smiles. he also sometimes helps me with what to say when me and my boyfriend are fighting. but he is my bestfriends brother, altho they are veryyy close so ther more like friends then siblings n us three went out yesterday and it was pretty sweet we kept flirting but i would stop and say something about my boyfriend to remind us both, but it was an overall best n sweetest time with my bestfriends, i like him, but i love my boyfriend even tho its tearing me up. but im never going to cheat. pretty much a bipolar relationship. what do i do??
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If you have doubts, it's hard to swallow, but it would probably be best to break up with him for the moment. Fighting sometimes can strengthen a partnership because, depending on how both sides react, it is a test of the relationship. Can you guys survive the fighting and compromise or not? Couples can take a break and resolve personal issues (like you mentioned, insecurity and low self-esteem, qualities that are not what you are seeking in a boyfriend. I'm going to guess what he lacks is what you find in the friend you started to like), then decide whether or not they were meant to be. Time spent apart can be time to grow as individuals. It doesn't mean you won't ever stop loving him or love him less. Sometimes, all it takes is some space to gain perspective on life and love. I think you know what to do. You and your boyfriend may need a time-out. You and he both can do well with other people, just to gain a little more experience before deciding if you guys will ever get back together. Hopefully, you have gained at least a little comfort. I wish you all the best.
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